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Learning Albanian: Do You Actually Need It?

Short answer, no. Long answer, you’ll probably be glad you tried at least a little. Albania isn’t one of those places where English just disappears. In Tirana and the main coastal cities, especially with younger people, you can get by…

Month Four

I’ve already left once and come back. It was 1999 or 2000. Derek had moved to Calgary and kept saying I should too. Better money, easier living, all of it. My wife at the time thought it was a good…

Flying Home

Nobody talks about this part when they’re selling you on the dream. The cost of going back. If you’re moving abroad and you still have people in Canada, and most of us do, then flying home is not a hypothetical.…

Staying Connected Across Distance

If you’re leaving, people are going to have opinions. Some will understand. Some won’t. And some relationships just won’t survive the distance no matter what you do. That’s not failure. That’s just what happens when you leave. Your Circle I…

The Conversation With My Daughter

There’s a moment when you stop being just her father and become someone whose life choices affect her future. I hit that moment when I decided to leave the country. Before I could plan a single visa application or research…

Reasons Why I Want to Leave

I’m fifty-three years old. Six feet tall, two hundred and fifty pounds, prediabetic, with severe depression and ADD that I’ve been managing mostly on my own. I don’t have a car. I live in Canada where the cost of living…